Unreasonable bitch that I am

Hope you all had a wonderful turkey day.

Ours was very nice, up until the end that is, when Andrew wanted to spend the night. According to Peter he was having his mother drop him off at Ojiichan's house after their Thanksgiving in Oroville. I said that is fine, until he AND his girlfriend arrived. I wasn't asked if the girlfriend could spend the night on Aiden's birthday and Peter had already told the kids it was okay. I was pissed. So when she showed up I promptly went over to Peter and told him that the girlfriend spending the night is not a part of the deal. So he told the kids that they couldn't spend the night that night. So today rolls around and we were to go pick up Andrew and go Christmas shopping. Peter asked if he was spending the night and the answer was yes so Peter says to his son well can you come alone please I would like to spend some alone time with you. Andrews answer was apparently no and that her parents were going to Tahoe. Not my problem!!! So then Peter say well let me talk it over with Regina. My response did not change. First of all I don't care if they are sleeping in another room. They are both too young, secondly Andrew is not trust worthy and just because he recently started to try and get clean doesn't mean anything to me. He has to earn my trust. The last time he was at our house besides Aiden's bday he ordered porn on our cable with out permission (like we would give it) charged up $30 never apologized never offered to work off the money, he also stole my medication and ended up in the er, times before that he would go out and not come home making us go look for him and report him missing, charnged up porn on other occasion as well, had friends over and took pictures of them smoking pot in our house. Peter says I am being unreasonable. I did not budge no matter if I was crying or he was pissed because I started swearing. He claims that I wasn't compromising. I told him oh fuck that I compromise plenty in this relationship. He asks what would make me happy. Is aid if you respected my feelings. He claims he does. I said well then if you respect my feelings then let's talk about sex so then he blamed me not wanting Andrew to spend the night is because I was trying ot get even. That made me even madder but I told him he was the one that changed the subject and that I am pretty happy with our relationship but when it comes to his son it is the only freakin time we really argue. I told him Andrew is more than welcome to come up here by himself but it is NOT MY FAULT his son is so immature that he won't come up unless he can have a slumber party. I said that right there shows his immaturity and lack of consideration for your feelings. Fuck that. Oh then he tried to say I wasn't allowing his son to come up because I didn't like him. What ever, Petr was just trying to get back at me like an immature 15 year old. Then he brought up how wild I was as a kid and I promptly told him that as an adult it doesn't mean I fucking aprrove of that behavior now. I said I certainly wouldn't let Aiden havea girl spend the night at age 15 and I certainly won't allow him to do wild things just because I did and if that is his reasoning and he wants his son to turn out the way he did then he's sick. That made him really mad. In the end he called up Andrew and told him I wasn't comfortable but that he would still pick him up to shop. Asked him if he would come spend the night any way. NOPE Selfish little brat that he is. Nothing has changed about his behavior I am sorry. I am not about to provide him with the convenient opportunity to have a fuck fest in our house. Peter left and as we promised my dad is bringing Aiden over to be babysat. I refused to go with Petr and here I am at home. Before he left we both apologized. I did not apologize for my feelings however. If I allow it now then I have to allow it again and again and with diffrent girls and blah blah blah No way. I even vented to Harumi last night and I know that she said something to Peter's dad because when he called last night to make sure we got home he asked something about Andrew and Peter had said that he took the kids home and then in that tone of ofcourse not he said NO, DAD! I know it had to do with her and him spending the night. I told my dad what was going on over the phone and told him Peter would be late. He agrees with me, ofcourse he is from a conservative generation. Things might be different of Andrew behaved differently but here is a boy that called me cocksucker, cunt, ugly anorexic bitch and expects me to just roll over to what ever his dad says. Oh I don't think so. Not after he has repeatedly missbehaved. less than a week ago he took Morphine, a hallucinegenic and pissed all over his mothers floor he was so out of it. Yeah and I am the foul mouthed unreasonable bitch in the family. That should have been my costume, oh wait it already was/is.